Tips For Guys II

I have returned from the world of, well, the world. I have seen guys that know what they're doing, and I've seen guys that haven't the faintest clue of what is going on. Both can be learned from. Our goal is to keep you from becoming the creepy guy that only thinks that girls like him.

Tip 3: If you are "creative" in any way, share it.

Recently, I've been talking to a guy that writes poetry. I don't mean the 'Roses are red' kind of poetry, but heart felt and truly from his heart poems. I absolutely love it. He showers me with his words and I swoon. It may just be because I'm a word person that this is a good thing, but It doesn't stop at poetry.

Guys, you have talents. Being creative isn't just something to be left to us girls, you have a place in the creative world as well. If you're an artist, paint/draw/sketch a painting. Do you sing? Women love guys that will sing for them. Do you knit? (Come on guys, we know you're out there. Stop trying to pass that sweater off as your mother's handy work.) Knit that girl a fucking pair of socks!

The only thing to remember when taking on this endeavor, is that you need to let it come from your heart. Girls can tell if there is emotions and sincerity in such things. If you are being anything but sincere, we'll smell you out and burn you on a pyre. Just so you know. So don't fake this stuff, its not worth it. Just be honest about why you're doing it.


Tip 4: Girls are not the only clingy ones.

I knew another guy, that became clingy fast. The worst part is that from the beginning he said that he didn't want anything serious. It wasn't but two weeks of talking to him after that, that he looked me in the eyes and said "I really like you a lot." Whoa there! Those are pretty serious words. The fact that there was a "I don't want anything serious" conversation previously, makes it confusing.

Did that conversation just get negated? It would have been easy to forget and move on, if he didn't want to see me all the time after that. It's an awful feeling of having to hide from someone, or make up excuses. I'm not that kind of person, I'm also not the kind of person to hurt someone else.

This guy of course, was sent packing. Clingy guys only work for clingy girls.